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Really feeling like home now……

Our shipment of furniture arrived in China on May 25th.  The process here is that  you have to then give your passport to Customs so that they can clear your shipment.  They generally hold this for up to 5 days.  Then they check the shipment inventory and ask lots of questions about what you would like to import into China.  This can take anywhere from 2-6 weeks.  They can also open any box or package to physically check for themselves.  Once they have cleared your shipment, you then have them schedule a team to deliver and unpack.  That happy day arrived for us on Friday June 22nd.  We had to co-ordinate with the management office of our compound to remove all our rental furniture the day before.

The team of 8 people arrived at 10am and very quickly got busy unloading the first of 2 trucks that were crammed full of our furniture and boxes filled with toys, kitchen stuff, clothes and other belongings.  We had also packed 2 boxes full of UK items such as teabags, toothpaste, shower wash, shampoo, conditioner, British sweeties and marmite.  Import toiletries are very expensive in China and so we had stocked up on 2 years worth to bring with us!

Day 1 had most of our furniture unloaded, unpacked and placed in the right rooms.  Day 2 had everything that we brought from England in our new house by noon.  FINALLY, Owen had all his kitchen gadgets back: his knives, pans, coffee machine, meat thermometer and all of his utensils.  He was back in action!!

Unfortunately, because our packages, boxes and crates were loaded and unloaded so many times, (UK home -> truck -> warehouse -> container -> China Customs -> warehouse -> truck -> China home), we have a few breakages.  A couple of them are on things that have huge sentimental value to Owen and I, even if they are not worth so much in real money terms.  Oh well, I guess we should be fortunate that it could have been worse and we are covered with insurance.  At least we didn’t have anything confiscated either…….

We quickly realized that even though we had a lot of furniture we still needed some extra pieces to complete our home here.  Luckily it is the season of ex-pat turnover and so lots of families who were moving on were advertising for quick disposal of their belongings.  So many people buy extra things when they arrive and then do not have enough room to take them all home (just like us in 2 years time now!!!)  Owen has been busy hanging pictures to really finish it off so now our home is complete and it is wonderful to have all our belongings around us.

 

A Mixed Week

The positive first:  work has been awesome this week.  Best week since I arrived in China.  I brought some enablement to my team here and the eagerness and passion for something new completely over-whelmed me.  We had 4 workshops so I started my week in Hong Kong, back to Shanghai and then up to Beijing.  Over 150 people enthusiastically throwing themselves in, having fun and learning lots of new techniques.  I am actually feeling very optimistic about being here (and that is the first time in 3 months that I can say that!!)

The downside: Owen, Isabelle and Oliver have flown to UK for 5 weeks and I am left with Tetley here.  I have never been apart from my children for so long and I am wondering how I am going to manage.  Thank goodness for Apple Facetime – it makes such a difference to see them when we are chatting!  The ex-pat community here all go home over the long summer break.  At least the spouses and children do.  There are homes all over our neighbourhood with just the working one left.  I was at the pool last weekend and over heard a conversation between a group of men who had been shopping together, eating together and were now hanging out at the pool together……. a regular new boys club!

I will be heading over to the UK in August so it is not so long to be apart.  And, it will be especially good if I can have a repeat work experience over the next couple of weeks too!  For the first time, I think I am making some progress and having an impact.  My sense of worth is returning and I am feeling positive and upbeat.

Stupid and stupider

A loud scream from the kitchen had me running in to see that Owen needed ice for his hand.  He had been cooking some meat by starting it in the frying pan, then putting it in the oven to finish off.  Of course, it was now back on hob and what do you usually do when you want to move a frying pan?  You pick it up!

I quickly filled the bowl with ice to cool his burning hand down and then take over preparing dinner.  Owen had just finished telling me what he had done with the extremely hot frying pan and handle.  I am thinking that this was a really stupid thing he had done as he had just used the oven glove to take it out of the oven.

He tells me that the meat is ready (his hand is still in the bowl).  What do I do?  I pick up the frying pan and burn MY hand!!!!  What a pair.  Stupid and stupider for sure.  We both spend the evening clutching ice wrapped in kitchen towel and then spraying after-sun lotion to cool our burning palms.  I cannot believe that we both did exactly the same idiotic action – I am even more amazed at my own stupidity after just seeing Owen do it.

Dragon Boat Festival

The ancient cultural holiday of the Dragon Boat Festival occurs on the 5th day of the 5th Chinese lunar month.  For the western calendar, this fell on June 23rd this year and Friday was a holiday – a lovely long weekend.  As legend has it, the festival began when a famous exiled poet named Qu Yuan, drowned himself in a river in 277 B.C.   Local people did not want to see Qu’s body eaten by the fish so they started throwing food, such as Zongzi, into the river, and some fisherman began racing their boats out to save him.    Chinese citizens now throw bamboo leaves filled with cooked rice into the water.  Therefore the fish could eat the rice rather than their hero poet.  Over the years this has turned into the custom of eating tzungtzu and rice dumplings.  The tradition has continued year after year to honor Qu Yuan, and the constant beat of the drums, and paddles splashing into the water, are sounds that have marked this time of year in China for centuries.  The Dragon Boat Festival is celebrated by boat races in the shape of dragons.  Competing teams row their boats forward to a drumbeat racing to reach the finish end first. 

 The celebration is a time for protection from evil and disease for the rest of the year.  It is done so by different practices such as hanging healthy herbs on the front door, drinking nutritious concoctions, and displaying portraits of evil’s nemesis, Chung Kuei.  If one manages to stand an egg on it’s end at exactly 12:00 noon, the following year will be a lucky one.

Dragon Boat Festival in Shanghai

Dragon Boat Festival in Shanghai

Century Park Day Out

Century Park is the largest park in Shanghai, covering 140 hectares with large areas of greens, trees and lakes.  There are multiple childrens’s play areas, picnic and fishing areas.  It is a blend of East and West, with the park’s landscaping combining British, Japanese, and Chinese gardening styles.   The only down side is that dogs are not allowed.  We spent a lovely day in the sunshine at this park. 

The Entrance to Century Park

The Entrance to Century Park

We rented a bicycle and rode around the entire park:

Bicycle made for 4!

Bicycle made for 4, yet there were only 2 of us pedalling!

I say we, but it was just Owen and I doing the pedalling with the kids telling us to go faster!  It was a great way to see the park and we were able to decide where to go back to.    The kids wanted to ride in a boat, ride the horses and eat ice cream so that is exactly what we did.

Both of the children attract attention from the locals because of their fair hair.  Oliver also has a double crown which is considered incredibly lucky in China so lots of people want to touch him because of that.  As you can imagine, neither of them are very fond of this, and my protective mother hen instinct also kicks up a notch.  We did not let this spoil our day – we smiled nicely and kept on walking.

By the Big Lake in Century Park

By the Big Lake in Century Park

One of the bridges over one of the lakes

Riding the horses!

Isabelle and Oliver attempting to ride the bike themselves

A boat ride.  (Oliver took this picture!)

Still on the boat.  Isabelle took this picture.